Saturday, April 6, 2024

Angels

(Geoff writes) Susan has pretty much stopped eating. It's not because it makes her sick. It hasn't. I've been reading a lot about patients' behavior and signs to look for. Not eating for no apparent  reason is one of them. Sleeping is another, and she's been doing a lot of that over the last several days. I have a monitor I use but she doesn't stir much during the night. She used to want my attention for one thing or another about 3am. Not so much now.

Her brother and family visited yesterday. She lit up when they came and it was a good visit. She had a "zoom" with her sister on the West coast a couple days ago and that was also very good. For both of them.

Today the Visiting Nurses are going to change her pain meds from liquid morphine to something she will tolerate better, to be administered by a pump through her port. It will deliver a constant stream of relief that she can easily regulate, if need be. I can't say enough good things about the VNA. They should be called the Visiting Nurse Angels.

Home Health Aide/Angel at the door. Gotta go now.

Remember that room upstairs I was painting last week? Well it's finished and I just thought that perhaps Susan will never see it. I can't dwell on thoughts like this. She can see the ocean from her bed. 

Susan says,

Love you all. Take care of each other.

9 comments:

  1. "Angels" sounds about right, Dad... they sound so supportive and caring. See you tomorrow. xxoo Deidre

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  2. Sending you and Susan so much love from the Green Mts. Please tell Susan we all love her and wish her journey to be a peaceful one 💗Sue, Pete, Keith, Christie, Henry, James, Trevor, Lisa & Mabel

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  3. Sending love to both of you Geoff you have been a wonderful husband and support system for susan You have been and angel too My heart and prayers go out to both of you. Love you Susan God bless you both❤️🙏🙏🙏

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  4. Sending lots of love and hugs to both of you, and hope to get to visit again next week. So glad the VNA are doing such a great job and have to say that Susan has a definite ANGEL at home!!! Corinne and Jim

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  5. You are doing such wonderful , loving caregiving. My heart is breaking for both of you. You two have had such an exciting life, traveling and bicycling all around the world.
    Every day you guys were on the go. As a dynamic and admired couple, you didn’t waste a minute. Hang in there, Geoff, we’re rooting for you both through this most difficult time in your lives. 💕 Joan

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  6. Peace be with you and Susan, Geoff, our thoughts are with you both.

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  7. Dear Geoff AKA The Saint, words fail at this sad point. You are a most excellent husband. I know Sue would agree. Much Love
    PS So glad she was able to see the sea.

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  8. Thinking of you both and wishing you peace. With love, Sandy M

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